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Review
A Military Brat's Review of BRATS: Our Journey Home by Donna Musil
By Lucy Newman
Published Jul 20, 2007
A Military Brat's Review of BRATS: Our Journey Home by Donna Musil
I had the opportunity to talk with Donna Musil and her co-director online for a story
I was working on for my newspaper when I was invited to come see their newest film
"BRATS: Our Journey Home" at the Airborne and Special Operations Museum.
I wasn't sure what to expect since I was a military brat myself and though many attempts by Hollywood seem
to miss the point when portraying a military brat.
The movie "The Great Santini" showed only the horrors of being a military brat and others seem to depict us
as super tough children with amazing skills, discipline and such.
When I arrived, there were other brats there waiting in line to see what the film was all about.
Some even brought their parents in hopes this movie will explain to them the life we had to lead while
they served in the Marines, Air Force, Navy or Army.
The rest seem to have had nothing better to do than catch a free movie.
As the theater darkened and the film began Kris Kristofferson introduced the film as old footage
of a military spouse walking into a crowd of people holding her child's hand.
"Most people think of a home as a place they've had all their lives.
But for some its not a place but a state of mind," Kristofferson said at the beginning of the movie.
"I was one of those children.
My daddy was a general in the Air Force ...
It was a strange and interesting childhood ... cruel, magical, privileged and painful all at the same time..."
Those words alone rang true as I've experienced all that as an Army brat.
Moving from place to place, seeing things no one else could see and learning about the different
cultures and societies that exist in our world first hand.
Moving back and forth between Europe and America, we could see the differences in belief,
attitudes and more just by exploring the areas we lived in.
But having those privileges had a price.
We moved every three to four years and with each move we lost personal friendships we've made during our stay.
Then had to begin all over again once we reached our destination.
When we moved back to America, we knew we may have to go to school off post where teachers
and non-military children would never understand us.
They seem to think we really do live our lives as portrayed by Hollywood.
The militant father, obedient mother and disciplined children used to taking orders.
For a brat like me, you can always tell who's new to the military world (those who have married into the military),
those who have lived in an area all their lives and those who have lived the military life all their lives like I have.
Always feeling like we didn't belong in the civilian world or to any one area
The movie pointed out many truths that seemed to have lifted a heavy weight from shoulders as I watched this film.
Truths such as we seem to be more open minded people as we grow up, everything we did reflected on our parent's
career in the military, there was no racial problem in the military since in my case 'we only saw green.'
The only segregation was by rank - the officers and the enlisted - as I was often reminded of this growing up.
Enlisted children do not play with officer's children and this included dating.
Which was sad, but I didn't want to do anything to get my father in trouble with his chain of command.
It was bad enough I seemed to have had discipline problems in the local schools.
I argued with my dad that we should live on the installation because the school's were better.
In fact for a military child they were, because you went to school with others who were experiencing and living the same life as you.
The teachers understood your needs and worked with you, especially when a parent had to deploy or go
away for a month on training missions.
Causing a great stress in your life.
Off post, you were treated as a disruption and often punished whether you deserved it or not.
This is true today.
If you ever talk to the military children of today, they'll say the same thing.
According to a little girl I interviewed one day, she said 'it's easier to go to school on the
base because everyone shares the same experiences you are and knows what you are going through.
I feel safer here. Off post they don't understand because they can go home every day and know their parents are there.
I may go home and he's gone for weeks or even months.'
At the end of the movie I felt as if someone understood me and I wasn't alone.
Other brats have been looking for their former classmates all this time.
But I also learned how others viewed us when a woman in the audience voiced that military children
grow up and are taught violence on the military basis.
Which, myself and a few others gasped that she thought that way.
This was simply not true and obviously she missed the whole point of the movie.
What I came away from the film with was that we are global nomads,
learning to keep up with our parent's career and experienced many things first hand by sacrificing everything to make it happen.
I thought the film was great and explains the real military brat without all the Hollywood glamor,
pretty faces and well-known actors.
This was a movie that really does tell our story and I recommend it.
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